Taylor Swift could change the way we think about dating and casual sex:
“Sex without commitment is what you do before commitment, no matter what your gender. If more girls like Taylor made it okay we wouldn’t be so fucking precious about when and how girls are allowed to fuck.” [Lainey Gossip]
Bad Feminist Roxane Gay on being a bad victim. [The Butter]
Gay also writes that “2014 was the year we stopped worshipping at the altar of monsters. It was the year when we saw predators for who they really are, even if justice eludes them.” [The Guardian]
The white rappers who appropriate hip hop. [Complex]
Crafting a costume while fat. [This Ain’t Livin’]
Speaking of costumes, I went as Beyoncé standing in front of the feminist sign at the MTV VMAs to a work Christmas party last week. Check out some of the photos here.
The sexual black man in music videos. [Pitchfork]
Why aren’t we talking about the sexual assault scene in Beyond the Lights? [Shadow & Act]
Rosie Batty is Daily Life‘s well-deserved Woman of the Year.
Women ain’t got time or means to shave when the apocalypse is nigh but Hollywood would have you believe differently. [Sociological Images]
I asked what Lena Dunham and the Slenderman attempted murder have in common: they both challenge the way we think women and girls should behave. [Bitch Flicks]
ICYM them, I’ve been publishing some year-end posts throughout the week, on the prevalence of stalking, “The Year of the Witch”, Scarlett Johansson’s banner year, and not a year-end post per se but a short piece about probably the worst time I was street harassed.
Have a happy holiday season and I’ll be back this time next week with the links I loved from over the Christmas break. I’m going back to my home town to relax and have my mum round around after me, so I should have ample reading time. I hope you do, too!
Image via Buzzfeed.