Go Home, Women’s Wrestling!

This post originally appeared on FanFyte.

Writer Gene Kwak released his debut novel Go Home, Ricky!, about an indie wrestler named Ricky Twohatchet, earlier this year. Ricky is trying to make ends meet after sustaining an injury in the ring, breaking up with his girlfriend and receiving core-shaking news about his identity and upbringing. It’s the latest in a long line of pop culture centered on men’s wrestling after the halcyon days of the women’s wrestling evolution that went mainstream.

Cast your mind back to 2019: GLOW had just aired its third and—though we didn’t know it yet—final season, Florence Pugh kicked off her banner year by playing Paige in Fighting with My Family, Total Divas and Total Bellas were still airing and Becky Lynch was wrestling’s biggest crossover star since John Cena. Wrestling was cool again—or at least as cool as it was ever going to be since its late ’90s heyday—and women were spearheading that, coinciding with the pinnacle of the women’s wrestling evolution.

Two years later and it would appear that it was all a fever dream. Total Divas hasn’t filmed since 2019, GLOW was unceremoniously canceled due to the logistics of filming a wrestling show in a pandemic (nevermind the fact that actual wrestling companies have continued on) and Becky Lynch has only just returned from taking a year off at the height of her popularity to have a baby. As commentary for the first women’s main event of WrestleMania, at the 35th installment in 2019, would have us believe, the women’s “evolution [is] complete.” The second women’s main event of WrestleMania (and the first between two Black wrestlers of any gender) between Sasha Banks and Bianca Belair this year notwithstanding, women’s wrestling in WWE has continued to experience periods of pre-#GiveDivasAChance dismality, the most recent of which was two consecutive episodes of SmackDown in September with no women’s matches at all. But hey, women can wrestle in Saudi Arabia now so they’re equal, right?

Women’s wrestling doesn’t fare much better in AEW, where their women’s division has proved problematic for bookers since day one, and many women’s matches are pushed to AEW Dark on YouTube. And while Women of Wrestling was recently rebooted, it’s with racist bully Tessa Blanchard at the helm.

Men’s wrestling, however, is thriving, with AEW a smorgasbord of white male indie darlings. The majority of the VICE docuseries Dark Side of the Ring has been about problematic men, and despite Netflix’s reasoning that producing a show about wrestling was too risky, that hasn’t stopped Starz from greenlighting men’s wrestling show Heels starring Stephen Amell, the first season of which just concluded. Similarly, a fictionalized retelling of Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson’s upbringing, Young Rock, aired earlier this year on NBC to great success. It will take more to convince me, but the general consensus is that men’s wrestling is back on top.

Which brings us to Go Home, Ricky!, by far the best mainstream representation of wrestling since GLOW. And while, yes, the novel is centered on a young man’s experience, Kwak wanted to use his main character to illuminate other identities.

“It was about showing different elements of toxic masculinity,” he tells me. When I posit the thesis of this essay to him, he exclaims that, “promoting women shouldn’t be an angle, it should just be a thing!” Indeed.

“My goal as a writer is to render everybody on the page with a level of grace,” he continues. “I still want to give them agency. There are people who come and go in the book but you still get a sense that they’re still living their lives off the page.”

“There were questions I wanted to tackle as a writer: a character who was on a search for his father, identity, masculinity, his relationship with his mother, wrestling, midwestern stuff…,” Kwak says. “It’s a wrestling book but there’s actually not a lot of wrestling in it. It’s about how wrestling informs [Ricky’s] life and his viewpoints. It’s a book about the search for his father but it’s actually about his mother. There’s all these different ways that I tried to play with or upend expectations and I hope people pick up on that.”

These are the nuanced unpackings of modern masculinity and racial identity in America that current mainstream depictions of wrestling only wish they could pull off. During our conversation, Kwak and I talk about how GLOW, Friday Night Lights and Ted Lasso succeed in being about subcultures that viewers don’t necessarily have to be interested in “because there’s so much about the humanity of the characters so that you care” about them rather than the pretense, Kwak says. 

Parallels can be drawn, too, with Reservation Dogs and the Native students Ricky mentors, which is both ironic given the aforementioned revelation about his ethnic background but is also inspired by Kwak’s work with Gateway to College

“I really wanted to write a midwestern book…,” says Kwak, who was born and raised in Nebraska, where he still lives and teaches at the University of Nebraska. “I always wanted the book to be about a character addressing his whiteness, so I had to make him confront that head on. It’s such a commonplace thing for a lot of white Americans to grow up with [a lore of having Native American ancestry in their genetic background] as part of their family history. Even Elizabeth Warren, who’s a very intelligent person, just heard it in a family story and ran with that narrative and never cared to look into it.”  

Despite the sophisticated identity politics that Go Home, Ricky! traverses, it is absolutely a book for wrestling fans. Kwak cites his inspiration as growing up as a wrestling fan in the heyday of the ’80s and ’90s, a time when both wrestling and the literary canon were both full of straight, white men “careening through the world, almost oblivious to the people they’re hurting or affecting,” he says. The inside baseball terminology of Kwak’s writing—listing off men who’ve sacrificed their bodies for wrestling that reads like an episode log of Dark Side of the Ring, for example—will satisfy the most hardcore fans, while laypeople won’t feel alienated.

While tastes seem to have ebbed back towards men’s wrestling for the time being, Go Home, Ricky! shows that this doesn’t have to mean that the stories just have to be about straight, white, cisgender men. As we wait for the flow towards a more equitable version of professional wrestling, it’s an ethos that other pop cultural products about wrestling and, indeed, wrestling proper could use much more of.

Why is Asuka the Second Fiddle of the Women’s Division?

This post originally appeared on FanFyte.

Asuka stared down champions Charlotte Flair and Alexa Bliss. Who would she choose to face for their title at WrestleMania 34, an honor she had just earned by winning the first ever women’s Royal Rumble match in 2018. As she considered the two competitors in front of her, the strains of Joan Jett’s “Bad Reputation” came over the sound system at the Wells Fargo arena in Philadelphia and Ronda Rousey made her much anticipated first appearance as a wrestler under contract to WWE.

It could have been worse: Rousey could have made her in-ring debut in the match, which the internet was going gangbusters with rumors of. But in stealing Asuka’s thunder as the winner of the first women’s Royal Rumble match, Rousey became the embodiment of how WWE would consistently undercut the momentum of the wrestler formerly known as Kana.

Up until her match at WrestleMania 34, in which she ended up challenging Charlotte Flair for her SmackDown Women’s Championship, Asuka was enjoying a 914-day undefeated streak throughout her tenure in NXT and during her move to the main roster in late 2017. She made quick work of every opponent put in front of her, from Bayley to Mickie James to Nikki Cross to Ember Moon, so much so that a viable usurper seemed unfathomable. It seemed that NXT agreed, opting to have Asuka forfeit the women’s championship, which she held for 522 days, rather than make her look like anything less than the killer she is by losing it in a match, the exception to the rule of NXT’s female babyface booking. While I don’t hate the end of the streak as much as others (I’d rather Charlotte end it than Rousey), WWE has only diminished Asuka’s fearsomeness since the end of the streak, portraying lesser wrestlers such as Carmella and Alexa Bliss as viable challengers.

Asuka continued to languish on the main roster for the next couple of years or so, playing second fiddle to Charlotte and her feud with Becky Lynch and Ronda Rousey, winning the SmackDown title in late 2018 during a Tables Ladders and Chairs match in which she seemed like an afterthought. This theme has carried on today, with Asuka seeming to be the sidekick—despite being the champion!—to other women’s stories. But more on that later.

The most egregious example of Asuka’s fleecing, to my mind, is the lead up to WrestleMania 35. Everyone was excited for the first women’s main event of the “Super Bowl of wrestling”, including myself. It was a no brainer ever since Becky Lynch got her face busted open and went viral while getting the better of Rousey several months before during what was supposed to be their first meeting at Survivor Series in late 2018. But WWE did what WWE is wont to do and severely fucked with the booking, adding Charlotte and the SmackDown women’s championship—which Charlotte had won from Asuka two weeks before—to the match, making it a winner-take-all stipulation. This resulted in Asuka and the rest of the women’s division (bar an equally-as-messy eight-woman tag team championship match) being pushed off the main card and into the women’s battle royal on the pre-show. It was later revealed that Asuka was supposed to defend the title against the winner of an advertised match between Carmella, Sonya Deville, Naomi or Mandy Rose, but that was scrapped in favor of beefing up the women’s main event to make it more meaningful. As if the first women’s main event wasn’t meaningful enough on its own, without all the additional bells and whistles.

Asuka’s propulsion as a singles star was further thwarted by putting her into the racistly-named Kabuki Warriors tag team with Kairi Sane, inexplicably managed for the first half of their run by Paige. Asuka’s Japanese heritage has always been a big part of her character, but in foisting her into a team with the only other Japanese woman on the main roster and having a white woman as their mouthpiece (Asuka and Sane leaned heavily on their native Japanese dialect during their time together), felt hollow at first, solidifying the argument that WWE doesn’t know what to do with wrestlers of color apart from lumping them together. Despite this, the team got themselves over and saw success, going on to hold the Women’s Tag Team Championships for the longest reign as of this writing.

With Sane leaving WWE, freeing Asuka up to get back into singles competition, it seemed like 2020 would finally be Asuka’s year. Along with Sasha Banks and Bayley, Asuka carried WWE through its audience-less pandemic year, and she was rewarded for it by being crowned the Raw women’s champion for its majority. But for those who care to see smell it *raised hand emoji* the same stench that has permeated the rest of Asuka’s main roster run was evident.

She may have won the women’s Money in the Bank match but, like in the two years prior (which make up 75% of total women’s MITB cash ins since the inception of the women’s version of the match in 2017; a dismal track record), the briefcase that usually contains a championship contract was cracked open within 24 hours to reveal that Asuka had actually won Becky Lynch’s Raw women’s title due to Lynch’s pregnancy. 

Surprisingly, this was not the only time that an Asuka storyline was foiled by a pregnancy: save for a brief period in mid-2020 when Asuka lost the title to Sasha Banks due to shenanigans, Asuka seldom defended it. When she did, especially in the latter part of 2020 and into 2021, it was secondary to another feud, namely Lana being bullied by the entire Raw women’s division, a returning Charlotte teaming up with Asuka to challenge tag team champions Shayna Baszler and Nia Jax, and Charlotte’s beef with her father, Ric Flair, and Lacey Evans, whose aforementioned pregnancy led to Evan’s match with Asuka being called off with nothing to replace it. As recently as three weeks prior to this year’s WrestleMania, Asuka did not have an opponent. Rhea Ripley made her main roster debut to challenge Asuka for the title on the grandest stage of them all, and their storyline consisted of… feuding with Baszler and Jax, just as the SmackDown women’s title contenders Sasha Banks and Bianca Belair had been doing, because although the introduction of the tag titles was supposed to provide more storylines to the women apparently WWE can’t think of any.

Poor writing and lack of opportunity have plagued WWE’s women’s division for a long time, resulting in social media movements such as #GiveDivasAChance in 2015. The muddled booking in recent months—on Raw in particular, where Asuka resides—have led to murmurings of another #GiveWomenSuperstarsAChance campaign. After orbiting Ripley and Flair in their feud for Asuka’s former title, which she lost to Ripley in their WrestleMania match, Asuka has been off TV since Money in the Bank in July addressing health concerns. Granted, at least Asuka is still under contract which is more than I can say for the spate of women wrestlers who have been let go. 

Sure, Asuka’s treatment is symptomatic of booking problems in WWE more broadly, but when it’s all laid out here, it’s plain for anyone to see that WWE has an Asuka problem.

World Wrestling Entertainment is Relying on Has-Beens to Pack Out the Melbourne Cricket Ground.

This post originally appeared on Ten Daily.

Sixteen years after World Wrestling Entertainment returned Down Under with their Global Warning tour in 2002, WWE looks to set attendance records again for their biggest event ever in Australia, Super Show-Down, next Saturday at the MCG.

Super Show-Down will be headlined by your childhood wrestling idols, The Undertaker VS. Triple H, in a match marketed as “the last time ever” these two will ever meet in a ring. Apparently the previous time they wrestled at WrestleMania 28 in a Hell in a Cell match which was billed as “The End of an Era” actually wasn’t.

Similarly, ’Taker, as he is affectionately known to fans, effectively “retired” in a match against Roman Reigns at WrestleMania 34 a year and a half ago. But like the Dead Man persona he takes on, he was resurrected at this year’s WrestleMania to defeat John Cena in what was also dubbed a once-in-a-lifetime event. But at 53 years old, The Undertaker is far from the supernatural hero of yore. He has appeared visibly fatigued in the occasional match he wrestles for at least the last five years, if not longer, and given the high rates of early deaths in the industry, I would prefer not to witness him literally die in the ring next weekend.

His opponent, Paul “Triple H” Levesque, is not exactly a spring chicken himself. At 49, he currently spends most of his time in a suit as WWE’s Executive Vice-President of Talent, Creative and Live Events. So I guess we can thank him for WWE’s continued reliance on stars from his heyday.

But we also have Levesque to thank for NXT, WWE’s minor league where many of its current and future stars are built, including the Australian wrestlers who will show up on Saturday, such as “The IIconics” Billie Kay and Peyton Royce, from Sydney, and Melbourne’s own Buddy Murphy, formerly known as Matt Silva in local promotion MCW.

Also wrestling at Super Show-Down will be Universal champion Roman Reigns. Heir to the The Undertaker’s throne, as well as those of fellow household names like Cena and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson (Reigns’ cousin), Reigns is WWE’s shaky attempt at building a new star. Internet pundits will complain that WWE doesn’t promote enough younger talent as I am doing here, but in the case of Reigns, we complain that his ascension was too prescriptive and inorganic. In the age of the anti-hero, we love to hate on the good guy or, in wrestling parlance, the babyface. Perhaps in an attempt to combat the inevitable boos that will echo from the MCG on Saturday, WWE has aligned Reigns with his old Shield teammates—a three-man vigilante group decked out in tactical gear and billed as “The Hounds of Justice” that was adored for much of the mid-2010s—Intercontinental champion Seth Rollins and Dean Ambrose, who has recently returned from injury. 

On the other hand, self-made notorious UFC fighter-turned-wrestler Ronda Rousey, who returns to the site of her first and most crushing defeat for Super Show-Down, has (rightly) drawn criticism not just for her transphobia and school shooting skepticism but for not having “paid her dues” in wrestling, winning the women’s championship in August after only a handful of matches.

And that’s the problem with WWE and their reliance on big names who are arguably past their prime: by the time a wrestler has paid off this arbitrary debt, honing their craft on the independent wrestling scene, toiling away in NXT, then being embroiled in a series of meaningless feuds and matches in WWE proper, they are oftentimes into their late thirties and early forties before they catch their big WWE break, if ever. (This usually only applies to male wrestlers. It’s rare to see a female wrestler stay active in the ring after her mid-thirties and/or motherhood, which is another problem in itself.) Given the high injury rate of WWE Superstars, coupled with the above mentioned propensity for early death, younger wrestlers are naturally more resilient so at the very least it seems like a poor business model to hinge your product on unpredictable older wrestlers.With the 41-year-old John Cena, WWE’s biggest mainstream star in the last 15 years who will also be at Super Show-Down, spending more time in Hollywood, and the disdain for Reigns and souring to Rousey, there is an argument for WWE wanting to shy away from building new stars. But now is the time they should be leaning into it, trying new things with more wrestlers to see what sticks.

A Literal Battle of the Sexes: Is Mixed-Gender Wrestling Making a Comeback?

This piece originally appeared in Playboy in 2018 prior to allegations of sexual assault against Joey Ryan.

World Wrestling Entertainment’s Mixed Match Challenge (MMC), a mixed-gender tag team tournament, premieres on Facebook Live on 16th January. The weekly competition pits twelve male-and-female partnerships against each other in what could mark WWE’s latest foray into testing the waters for a full blown intergender wrestling renaissance.

Intergender wrestling, which involves a woman wrestling a man, enjoyed some popularity in WWE in the late 1990s and early 2000s and sees continued success on the independent wrestling scene, with Princess Kimber Lee (now known as Abbey Laith in WWE) and Sexy Star winning male titles in their respective promotions. The World’s Cutest Tag Team, consisting of Joey Ryan and Candice LeRae, even have a line of intergender merchandise currently being sold at select Hot Topic stores.

Intergender wrestling has largely fallen by the wayside in WWE in the last decade or so as the company marketed itself as a family-friendly product. Though the MMC will not officially involve any male-on-female contact (the definition of a mixed match is that when an opponent of another gender tags into the match, they must only wrestle a member of their same gender), WWE has slowly been flirting with the idea, through their “Women’s Evolution”, that men and women are equal now and can therefore face off against each other in the wrestling ring.

At last year’s WrestleMania event, John Cena and Nikki Bella wrestled The Miz and Maryse in a mixed tag team match, so while Nikki was not technically allowed to touch her male opponent Miz, that didn’t stop her from taking a suicide dive out of the ring and onto him.

It wasn’t until this past November that the first official intergender match in five years took place on WWE programming, though. In a storyline that simmered for the better part of 2017, James Ellsworth (who actually won a women’s match by collecting a briefcase suspended from above the ring and giving it to woman wrestler Carmella) finally faced Becky Lynch on SmackDown on the USA network, a match that Lynch won. 

In the lead up to the aforementioned WrestleMania match, Bella performed her finishing move on male wrestler Tyler Breeze, which caused her to injure her surgically repaired neck. In that respect, the argument can be made that women are genetically weaker than men and shouldn’t be competing against them. To take it a step further, then, intergender wrestling perpetuates and normalizes gendered violence, which is a debate that rages on wrestling Twitter every other week.

But professional wrestling is fake or, to placate my fellow wrestling fans, I’ll use another term: pre-determined. This means that the match outcomes and much of the rest of the in-ring performance have been decided ahead of time. When two or more wrestlers get in the ring together, they’ve agreed to the simulated violence that takes place therein. In other words, intergender wrestling—and all professional wrestling, for that matter—is about consent, whereas domestic, intimate partner and gendered violence is most definitely not.

Woman wrestler Mia Yim, also known as Jade in TNA Wrestling, has been very vocal about being both an intergender wrestler and an intimate partner abuse survivor. In a 2016 interview with The Huffington Post, Yim details her abuse at the hands of her male then-partner, also a wrestler whom she had faced in intergender matches. “We choose to get in the ring. We’re trained to keep ourselves and our opponents safe. But when someone brings it back home, that’s not wrestling anymore. That is not entertainment. That is just straight abuse,” she said of the difference between consensual and non-consensual violence.  

In an article on their website about the upcoming first ever women’s Royal Rumble match (a 30-person battle royal where the winner gets a title match at WrestleMania, the men’s version of which has been running for thirty one years), WWE wrote that, “Oftentimes, men’s and women’s sports have slightly different regulations…. However… the first-ever Women’s Royal Rumble Match will feature no such alterations to its rules.” This is a marked departure from their previous attempts to position wrestling as a legitimate sport, perhaps the only way they can make intergender rules mesh with their family-friendly brand.

Though spectacular athletes, in this way WWE wrestlers are more like superheroes or stunt performers than sportspeople. Plenty of pop cultural products that feature equal opportunity violence manage to maintain a PG rating. “True equality is intergender wrestling,” Joey Ryan tells Playboy. “TV and movies don’t shy away from intergender scripted fighting so WWE should catch up with the rest of the entertainment industry.”

WWE has seemingly been trying to do this for the past several years but, in the wake of Harvey Weinstein and everything his downfall hath wrought, it can no longer afford to be content with a “Women’s Evolution” that is little more than a hashtag. The MMC needs to directly lead into intergender wrestling in order for WWE to maintain its relevance in this brand new world.

On the (Rest of the) Net.

I’m at Paste Wrestling writing about the dearth of women’s wrestling merchandise on WWEShop.com, and the stuff that is there is exclusionary to children on the spectrum and women who’ve experienced sexual assault.

I wrote about the censorship of porn when many young people use it as sex education. [Archer]

My latest for SBS Life is about how women’s friendships can dwindle later in life and why that’s okay.

I wrote about why we need diverse podcasts for Feminartsy.

I contributed to Writers Bloc‘s list of feminist books for International Women’s Day and covered the All About Women festival for them.

Crazy Ex-Girlfriend‘s Rebecca Bunch is crazy. “So am I.” [Junkee]

Britney Spears deserves better than her Lifetime movie. [Buzzfeed]

“How Supergirl Became One of the Most LGBTQIA-Friendly Shows on TV.” [Elle]

The Good Fight needs Kalinda Sharma.” [The Ringer]

“No, I Don’t Want To Watch A Rape Survivor Reconcile With Her Rapist.” [Junkee]

Get Out the the horror movie of our time. [Buzzfeed]

And in it, “Allison Williams Knows How to Make ‘Good White People’ Scary”. [Vulture]

Rereading The Handmaid’s Tale in the Trump era. [The Cut]

How will women’s magazines cover Ivanka Trump? [Politico]

Kellyanne Conway is a Cool Girl. [WaPo]

What Donald Trump’s food says about him. [Eater]

How Big Little Lies challenges “Leaning In” and #WomenWhoWork. [Buzzfeed]

Daria Morgendorffer is the heroine we need now. [The Cut]

Intersectionality is not a brand, but it extends to brands. [Daily Life]

World Wrestling Entertainment asserted a year ago that it would start telling LGBTQIA stories. That still hasn’t happened. [Paste Wrestling]

ICYMI: I republished an old freelance article about how Gossip Girl and other flashy shows make me feel bad about myself.

And in case this wasn’t enough for you, there’s more feminist reads at the 105th Down Under Feminists Carnival. [Transcendancing]

On the (Rest of the) Net.

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I wrote about the damaging notions of “most girls” and “real women” in wrestling for a new intersectional wrestling site. [Intergender World Champs]

I also wrote about blogging nostalgia and why I no longer identify as a blogger. [Writers Bloc]

I’m at F is for Feminism writing about being child-free by choice.

And my latest piece for SBS is on white writers telling black stories.

The catch-22 women who experience depression from taking the pill face when they have no other options. [Daily Life]

“I’m a woman wrestler and a survivor of intimate partner violence.” [Motto]

The frightening similarities between Election and the current U.S. presidential race. [The Cut]

How women’s magazines repositioned themselves to be major players in the political press. [Vox]

Elena Ferrante’s outing and Kim Kardashian’s robbery are two sides of the same privacy coin. [The Cut]

Couples with Down syndrome don’t need to be sterilised, they need to be supported. [Daily Life]

Birth of a Nation gives its women characters the short straw. [Vulture]

“Pussygate” was the final nail in Donald Trump’s presidential coffin, and women voters will make him pay for it at the ballot box. [NYTimes]

Trump’s abhorrent misogyny has brought to light the Republican party’s view of women as extensions of the men who own them. [The Cut]

Image via SE Scoops.

On the (Rest of the) Net.

I wrote about LGBTQIA representation in World Wrestling Entertainment. [SBS Zela]

Black American women slayed the Olympics. [ABC]

Law & Order: SVU wasn’t always the ripped-from-the-headlines guilty pleasure we know today. [GQ]

Donald Trump’s conspiracy theories about Hillary Clinton’s health are just the latest in a long line of women and their bodies being unfit to lead. [HuffPo]

The braless and makeup-free trends can be exclusionary to a lot of women. [Daily Life]

Also, let’s not pit women who do and don’t wear makeup against each other. [HuffPo]

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Trans actress Jen Richards breaks down why the casting of Matt Bomer to play a trans woman is troubling. [Storify]

“Black Tweets Matter.” [Smithsonian]

Has the sharing of viral war porn gone too far? [Daily Life]

The invisibility of women murdered by their intimate partners in crime reporting. [Guardian]

Toxic masculinity makes men less likely to care about the environment. [Daily Life]

On the (Rest of the) Net.

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The female legacy of Ghostbusters[Kill Your Darlings]

Leslie Jones’ role in the reboot is a win for diversity but also a loss for diversity. [The Toast]

“All of Beyoncé’s career has been leading up to Lemonade, including often overlooked songs such as ‘Black Culture,’ ‘Grown Woman,’ and ‘Creole.’ ‘***Flawless’ and ‘Superpower’ are the preface to ‘Formation,’ ‘Jealous’ the prequel to the mid-sections of Lemonade. ‘Irreplaceable’ stands in the doorway filing its nails somewhere between ‘Don’t Hurt Yourself’ and ‘I Ain’t Sorry.’ ‘Freakum Dress’ is the PG-13 sister of ‘6 Inch.'” [Spark]

Taylor Swift’s feminist evolution. [Billboard]

Margot Robbie’s Vanity Fair cover story has sparked calls to stop getting middle aged men to write lecherous cover stories on famous women:

“Let’s allow women to write about women for a little while. Maybe then we can swap the prevalent illusions of femininity for realistic portraits of women as complex human characters.” [The Walrus]

Playing Pokemon Go as a black man. [Medium]

Women only watch wrestling for the hot guys, right? [Wrestling Sexism]

The rise of cripface on TV. [LA Times]

Why being an ally is no longer enough. [Marie Claire]

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Does Orange is the New Black buy into the “bury your gays” trope?

OITNB, conversely, uses Poussey’s death to illustrate exactly the issue that ‘Bury Your Gays’ seeks to highlight. Big, unchecked organisations can erase marginalised people without a second thought, and the grinding, faceless mechanisms of bureaucracy are capable of cruelties far beyond what any individual could commit. OITNB kills Poussey in order to tell this story.” [Vulture]

Masterchef and other cooking shows leave vegetarians and vegans out in the cold. [Kill Your Darlings]

“A man’s appetite can be hearty, but a woman with an appetite is always voracious: her hunger always overreaches, because it is not supposed to exist. If she wants food, she is a glutton. If she wants sex, she is a slut. If she wants emotional care-taking, she is a high-maintenance bitch or, worse, an ‘attention whore’: an amalgam of sex-hunger and care-hunger, greedy not only to be fucked and paid but, most unforgivably of all, to be noticed.” [Hazlitt]

Images via Buzzfeed, Netflix.

On the (Rest of the) Net.

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I wrote about the racial politics of Black Lives Matter, #ICantBreathe, #HandsUpDontShoot and #SayHerName inherent in Orange is the New Black‘s latest season (spoilers!). [Junkee]

And here’s how the show is shining light on the realities of women in prison, and when they’re released. [Elle]

Mother Jones did a video series and an accompanying article on what it’s really like to be a guard in a privatised prison.

I also wrote about whether Total Divas has a place in the women’s wrestling revolution. [Femmezuigiri]

And Sports Illustrated‘s deadnaming of Caitlyn Jenner was bigoted and invalidating to the trans community. [SBS Zela]

Jesse Williams made a stirring speech about racism in America at the BET Awards. [BET]

I spoke to Sonia Nair about working part time in a non-creative industry while trying to make writing work. [The Cusp]

Why isn’t Kanye West a gay icon? [MTVNews]

What porn and wrestling have in common: a lack of unions. [In These Times]

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie writes election fiction from the point of view of Melania Trump. [NYTimes]

Image via Netflix.

On the (Rest of the) Net.

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I wrote in defence of Eva Marie.

From Sir Mix-A-Lot to Taylor Swift to LEMONADE: on the origin of Becky. [Fusion]

bell hooks’ criticisms of LEMONADE and black femininity. [bell hooks institute]

Janet Mock responded smartly. [Facebook]

Feministing hosts a roundtable on the topic. 

And with LEMONADE, Beyonce says “boy, bye” to black respectability. [Fusion]

Women-only train carriages: creating a safe space for women or not doing enough to curb the predatory behaviour of men? [Sheilas]

How Jane the Virgin deals with money. [Think Progress]

George Michael’s “black” musical history. [Slate]

How social media can increase organ donations. [NYTimes]

Why do women love Chris Evans so much? [Buzzfeed]

Ronan Farrow on why the media needs to hold Woody Allen accountable to allegations of child sex abuse against his daughter and Farrow’s sister. [THR]

Chelsea Handler writes in defence of being single. [Motto]

Justin Bieber and the surveillance of celebrities. [MTV]